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Outfit Post: ► Try ◄

3/01/2013 09:24:00 AM Ice Goddhez Blog 112 Comments

For this post, I wish to start off with these lines ...
Ever worried that it might be ruined
And does it make you wanna cry?
When you're out there doing what you're doing
Are you just getting by?
Tell me are you just getting by by by ...

Where there is a desire There is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame Someone's bound to get burned
But just because it burns Doesn't mean you're gonna die
You've gotta get up and try try try Gotta get up and try try try 
MANGO Skirt Suizo (Swiss Embroidery Skirt) - found here
Does it sound familiar?

Well, those are some of the lines from Pink's song "Try." I've heard the song since it was released; seen her music video since it went live; and seen her amazing rendition of her song in her live AMA Performance. The song is simply amazing! The lyrics convey the right words and message to a person who's really trying ...

I'm this dark mood lately and I'm not sure how it's gonna get better. A lot of factors beating me down to bits & pieces ... I'm just getting by ... Pink's song may be more suited for a lover suffering in violence but the lyrics are apt for all troubled folks out there too, not just lovers ... and it reminds us to stand back up and try, try, try ...

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I'm really having a lot of challenges lately ... my health, my back problems, my work life, real life ... too much pressure going on. At times I really want to give up already.

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Black and Silver Accessories

I've already toughened out from years of experience and existence, that I must say. But some times, there are those that really drain us and drill us down, claiming all the positive energies we have in the world. If I let it, they win. If I don't, it's just still very hard ... at this point, I am confused what to do. Lack of light and guidance ... thinking of who's still looking after me. Trust ... who to trust? Have you been in this situation too?

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Dressing up in colors, loud prints, and the likes are reflective of happy moods. In monotone, black, grey, black and white ... while not really indicative of sad moments; it still just normally evokes that feeling. Been floating that boat ...

I look down ... thinking and thinking ... why?

This look really captured that mood ... dark, sad, lack of life. I don't want to stay here. Somehow, I'm just trying to keep up. No ... I'm not giving up. I'm raised with values and love and respect. I don't ever want to lose that. I will continue trying ...

What do you think?

  1. F21 Tear Pointed Drop Earrings, Forever 21 Philippines 
  2. Black Velvet Ponytails, SM Accessories 
  3. DAS34 Peep Toe Heel-Less Ankle Strap Wedges (Black), DAS My Shoes DAS (warning: these shoes can kill!) 
  4. Xoxo Accessories Rhinestone Accent Silver Bangle Watch, XOXO 
  5. Hearts Charm Silver Bracelet, (Gift)
  6. 3 Black Diamonds With Rhinestone Accent Connector Rings, SM Accessories
  7. MNG Striped Grey Racerback Tank Top, Mango 
  8. MNG Skirt Suizo (Swiss Embroidery Skirt), Mango
  9. Encyco Black Wrap Around Cardigan, Encyco, Comme des Garcons (Bloggers United 3 Purchase)

Where to find this look?
► Try ◄
Lookbook | Tumblr | Facebook

Get this Look?

Do you like this look? Hopefully! (^_^) Be continuously inspired and spread the love! I really loved how my photos here turned out and how the sun cooperated with me and the natural lighting. I felt I had lesser problems~


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  1. Rowena Rolala LovesMarch 1, 2013 at 10:27 AM

    Chai you look fabulous! I love the skirt! And I hope you hang in there and stay postive cause you will work through those challenges.

    Rowena @ rolala loves

  2. Love that skirt Chai! You look so pretty:)! Rita @

  3. Uh,... I hope you feel better soon. I deffo understand the feeling when you are pushed to the edge.. But yes.. don't give up, I respect your attitude. And I love your shoes.

  4. Hi Chai! I can get what you say! I am also as you:) But black suits you:) Love the skirt and the heels, they are very very cool! You look great dear! Sending lots of light and good energy to your way! Kisses dear! xo

  5. Love the skirt and your shoes so much! Thanks a lot for your comment on my post :)

  6. u r always so beautiful! great look!





  7. Great look and love those shoes on you!! :)

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  8. Лидия ФроловаMarch 2, 2013 at 8:10 PM

    Awww dear stunning outfit! So feminine and elegant!

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  9. Hang in there! You look sooo pretty in that outfit sweetie :-)

  10. You're looking s pretty in black!
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  11. Love your shoes honey!! :)

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  12. I love this look but I'm sad to hear you're feeling down :-(( I'm sending you all my love dear Chai.Big hug.

  13. Ohh thanks my dear Rowena! *hugs*

  14. Thanks so much Rita! Really appreciate it :)

  15. Ohhh thanks my dear Lara! THanks for being there :)

  16. Thanks my dear Lilli! Love your nice comments :)

  17. No problem Jasmin! Thanks dear!

  18. Thanks for visiting my dear! :)

  19. Thanks my dear Coco! Thanks for being there!

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  21. God gives guidnace to those , who really want it to get better. No one is always lost , they , somehow find a way. Good luck to you and I love this outfit. :)

    Aree With Umbrella

  22. This outfit definitely doesn't reflect sadness. for me it's empowerment, taking control of your life, being tough. Hun, when you think life's too tough on you, think again and realize a lot of people out there are in worst situation and they still get by. make that your inspiration.
    I hope you had a lovely weekend sweetie

  23. Pretty look dear!
    You look really amazing!


  24. Beautiful! Love the Shoes <3


  25. Sam @ Frills & ThrillsMarch 4, 2013 at 8:01 AM

    Hi sweety, loving the chic elegance of this outfit, the skirt is an amazing piece. You look fantastic!

  26. really cute outfit Chai!! i really love your skirt and shoes, i can't walk in those! i tried walking in those type of heels but I can't :( it's weird coz i can walk in 6 inches stiletto heels but not that, haha. i want your ring! xx

  27. wow I love that skirt so much, you look fabulous my dear :*


  28. Love your oufit Chai, the skirt is really cute and I like how you accessorized it without giving away the spotlight from the skirt :-)

    xoxo Pakize

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  29. mochaccinoland.blogspot.comMarch 4, 2013 at 11:28 PM

    great skirt & cool heels!


  30. I like your accessories a lot...but could never walk in those shoes..amazing!

  31. Hello dear! I visited your new URL. It's still working as I have you on my GFC. Keep in touch :)

  32. Thanks for the inspiring comment dear Aree! :)

  33. Yay! Thanks so much dear! I appreciate your motivational comment :)

  34. Haha those shoes are still ok as they're platform. Just need to keep balancing hehe :)

  35. Yay thanks so much dear Bonnie!

  36. Thanks so much dear! Thanks for your support!

  37. 5, 2013 at 6:03 PM

    Pretty your look is so cute :) amazing shoes!

  38. you look so pretty :)

  39. Joyce Posas QuiramaMarch 6, 2013 at 4:10 AM

    hiiii My dear Chen!!!

    SO SORRY!! Please forgive me, i was so busy the last days i can't visit any blog sorry :(

    But i'm here

    and dear really loveeeee this shoes

    and the skirt is soo cute

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  40. Love it! specially the skirt and shoes, gurl yo rock it on ;)

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