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Outfit Post: ~♦◊ The Nude Truth ◊♦~

3/17/2013 08:59:00 AM Ice Goddhez Blog 112 Comments

"If someone has a problem with you, always remember ... It's THEIR problem" 

I'm trying to motivate myself with quotes I see around and this one seems to be spreading like wildfire on social networking sites I go to so I thought, hey, it's applicable for me! LOL. It's been a rough year with all the issues I was brought with and me being sickly altogether. But I never faltered standing back up (despite my frail spine) ...

Blazer c/o
Sexy Fashion Women Apricot Jacket Black Line Lapel

Sometimes, I wonder, why people bother to constantly bring someone else down ... it's not human nature to be bad (I believe!) but at times, people tend to be bad. *sigh* How I wish people can just stay true and transparent ... though that's wishful thinking, for sure! Isn't it lovelier if people are just true ... showing the naked truth?

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Transparency and integrity I uphold! It's been a rough battle lately, for me, as I get to decipher who's staying real and who's been all phony and fake. Hmmm, well actually it's really easy to identify ... but I've probably just been denying it to myself; because I wanted to believe that these people are still real and have genuine personality; people I still trust ... despite the reality that they've probably been all two-faced all along.

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It's lovely to dress up in nude ... beige ... apricot ... such shades are awesome! I've been dressing up this way lately because it reminds me to stay real and still become transparent; even when everyone else (probably) around me, are not ...

Erica Gold Gilded Pumps in Patent Beige
from Comfit Shoes

"The way people treat you, is a statement about who they are as a human being. It's not a statement about you." It's pretty motivational. While I don't mean to step on the people who step on me by stating this quote, I just guess it's still true. It helps keep me going.

Quilted Design Handbag / Shoulder Bag by Céline

At these trying times, I'm glad to still have a few folks who remain true. They stay by my side and by hook or by crook. Like my friend who lent me this bag (just for the sake of the photo, LOL). I felt this bag matches the entire outfit's look & feel so we snapped away with it. The quilted design shows intertwined roads but in the end, it's all smooth and beautiful.

Rose Cameo Necklace (Pink)
by Tomato PH

The outfit requires less accessories as the style, cut, and colors are already speaking for themselves. So I only accessorized with this necklace. Kinda reminds me of the Titanic movie's famous line ... "Wearing ONLY THIS." LOL. The necklace is really pretty. Somehow vintage effect and the rose pattern and color gives that lovely, feminine vibe.

Tea for Two Beige Polka Dots Chiffon Skirt
from Tea for Two, People Are People

This look is normally what I wear on Corporate Monday dress codes we have at work. And to avoid looking too old for my age yet maintain the formal, corporate position-appropriate look; I add some touch of girlie vibes in my outfit like this polka dotted chiffon skirt. The print is very versatile and never goes out of style. Adding this print to this look tones down the serious mood, actually. Makes me turn my back on all those thrown against me ...

Gold Colored Yolina Bracelet WatchBy Sophie Paris Philippines

Only time will tell, when haters would stop hating ... and when insecure people would become confident within themselves and leave other successful people on their own. Success can grow further, if such people would share and just work together; than tear teamwork apart. Politics ... such a dirty game.

At the end of the day, I must keep that "smile" on my face and keep on going. I know God has a reason why he gave me such challenges to bear; and such people to deal with. I'm not sure how I can endure it further but all I can say is; I will keep up and never stop ...

Gold goes well with this ensemble. Black, beige, nude, camel colors ...

And I look back and think ... there are still those people I can consider as "real" and "not fake" ones building walls ... transparency and integrity ... Only people with genuine hearts can see.

What do you think?

  1. Aldo Accessories Nude Eyeglasses, ALDO Shoes - Philippines ALDO Shoes 
  2. CLN Quilted Design Hand / Shoulder Bag, CÉLINE 
  3. Black Velvet Ponytails, SM Accessories 
  4. Black Ladies Camisole Tank Top, People Are People
  5. Tea for Two Beige Polka Dots Chiffon Skirt, Tea for Two, People Are People
  6. Comfit Shoes Erika Gold Gilded Pumps in Patent Beige, Comfit 
  7. Nude Sexy Fashion Women Apricot Black Line Lapel Jacket, Pink Pudding, 
  8. Gold Colored Yolina Bracelet Watch, Sophie Paris Philippines 
  9. Rose Cameo Necklace, Tomato, TOMATO 
  10. Gold Pecan Beads Bracelet, (Gift from Jodie)
  11. Crystal Studded Half Hoops Gold Earrings, Butterfly Silver

Where to find this look?
~♦◊ The Nude Truth ◊♦~
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Do you like this look? Hopefully! (^_^) I constantly pray for the truth ...


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  1. great blazer!! :) Also I would like to invite you to take part in my giveaways :)

  2. You look gorgeous and the outfit is great!! Hope u feel better soon.. I have been dealing wth such ppl lately, such a pain..
    That Sassy Girl

  3. Hi Chai! I really love what you share, I am agreed with just keep to be yourself and dont let others make you feel down! Often when people got their own troubles tend to vent on others, just stay yourself and live your life dear:) Love this professional look, great bag and heels! Follow you already on bloglovin and recently added you also on G+:)) Kisses and happy Sunday! xo

  4. Wow, you look beautiful <3 love the blazer!!

    following you on bloglovin now!!

  5. You look stunning dear! beautiful look!!!
    I will keep on contact with you!

    kisses pretty!

  6. I already follow you on Bloglovin :)

  7. Amazing outfit! Love your necklace and your jacket!!




  8. Lovely outfit, Chai! (: Nude colors are always good!
    I imported all the blogs I follow via GFC (so yours as well) to Bloglovin so I'm following you on Bloglovin already! :D

  9. You look lovely! Gorgeous outfit, the skirt and the jacket are to die for! You have a great blog! I'd love if you checked out my blog, and if you like it, can we follow each other on “GFC” and “G+”? I promise I’ll follow you back <3

    PS: I like "bloglovin" and I have it, but I hate not knowing (and seeing) "who" is following me, so for me the most important is the GFC or the "G+ followers" ;)



  10. Well you are right about that - if someone has a problem with you then it's their prob. Nope it's not human nature to be mean, but there are many who try to boost themselves by bringing down others. Sad :[

  11. very pretty!

  12. Лидия ФроловаMarch 17, 2013 at 9:22 PM

    Wow, this is really amazing! Love your look, dear!

    And I follow you now via bloglovin. Do you have google+?

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  13. So cool dear, I love your skirt and the jacket :) ♥

    Mina from the blog The Style Fever.

  14. You look great :)

  15. Looks amazing on you, super pretty. Now following you via GFC, would love if you could check out my blog :)


  16. Chai! You look so amazing. Of course I'm following you back via bloglovin! I would never want to lose touch with you, girl! LOVE the outfit as usual!

  17. Sam @ Frills & ThrillsMarch 18, 2013 at 7:59 AM

    Hi sweety, love the chic sophistication of your outfit, the jacket is a classically beautiful piece. There are people out there that will try to bring you down only because they are envious of you and your success, just keep on being who you are, strong, focused and confident!

  18. Agnieszka Guerrero OlesinskaMarch 18, 2013 at 10:10 AM

    Stylish look, love the skirt. Really impressive blog, love your style. If you want check mine and we could follow each other:-)



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  19. Oh hun you're not alone, I can totally relate to such situation. When people see you rise above them, then they start to pull you down. Sad to say but I think it's mostly a Filipino mentality. I've got a lot of foreign friends who stays true and never have I hear them ruin others. They just move on and talk about more sensible things like the world, economy, and politics.
    So think about the situation as naturally separating the fake from the real ones. They're saving you from the hassle of figuring it out by yourself. Good riddance. Move on, stay fab and keep posting those stunning and very inspiring looks on your blog!
    Way to go gal!

  20. Ahh, love the blazer and white pumps. Looks so classy!
    Following you on facebook now. I just started a facebook page for my blog- check me out there too :)

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  21. This is a fabulous look on you Chai! One of my absolute favorites from you! Btw, I'm following you on bloglovin & facebook too now. As for what you said in your post, so much truth and insight! And I love that quote! You are very special Chai...always remember that! And whatever tough times you went through or are currently going through...I hope they pass. And I can only say that these experiences make you stronger. They are part of who you are, but don't define who you know what I mean? When you don't feel sucks. But something about it makes you more understanding of other people. I think pain (whatever it is) humbles people:)! Anyways, feel better my dear! Rita @

  22. I love this outfit hun, it's my favourite ever!!! You rock my dear!!!

  23. fabulous look my dear, that jacket is beautiful, love nude colors :)

    I'm already following you via bloglovin and other networks, so I'm sure we'll stay in touch after retiring google reader ;)

    kisses my dear


  24. Beautiful Outfit! Love the Skirt ,super gorgeous :)


  25. very very nice my dear!!:)

  26. I love the blazer and heels, Great outfit colours Chai.

    Stay Stylish,

    TL. Xx
    Twynkle Loves

  27. OMG! you look so hot. Love your watch :)

  28. Awesome post, my love.

    Thank you for your awesome words.

    I follow you via Bloglovin, G+1.



  29. pretty!
    Emma xx

  30. 19, 2013 at 6:27 AM

    Great look Chai:)

  31. lolololol. u know whats funny, as i was reading thru your whole blog post i kept thing.. yeaaa, i agree with a lot of this and all this talk is pretty deep and all. but then you have all these outfit posts scattered throughout your writing. haha i felt like i was reading two separate blog posts at once. although i know that you did mention that u like to wear nude and what note to help you remind yourself of what u wrote about. idk what im telling you this, lol. just a random thought =P

    gahh, and office politics.. it really is a dirty game. i try not to play it. btw, i used to hold onto ppl in hopes that they would prove me wrong and not be fake. but i learned that its better to just cut them off and instead, invest your time on relationships with people who are real and who are actually there for you.

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  32. Thanks for your kind visit sweety!

  33. oh my gosh! i want your blazer Chai! it's perfect =D you're looking so sexy and sophisticated with that outfit :)

    I hope you're having a beautiful day ~ XO

  34. Rowena Rolala LovesMarch 19, 2013 at 8:23 AM

    I love how professional this outfit looks Chai! Thanks for your nice comments. I'm following you back on Bloglovin now and I just added you on Twitter as well. Stay in touch sweetie :)

    Rowena @ rolala loves

  35. beautiful! I love nude especially when it comes to shoes. I'm sorry people have been mean to you.. but just continue to be you, tap into your inner strength and just continue Rising!


    Are you on Instagram? follow me @voguevxn (link on my page) and will defo follow back.

  36. very cute outfit!!

  37. found u on instagram!
    following u now.. x

  38. Love the blazer!
    So cute!
    You still need to nominate me for the company blogger awards, the voting part hasn't opened yet.
    Im officially following you on bloglovin.
    Love G xx

  39. So chic babe!!!!!!!

  40. mochaccinoland.blogspot.comMarch 19, 2013 at 8:33 PM

    lovely polka dots skirt!


  41. hahaha so pretty dear! :)

  42. lovely jacket!

  43. Great outfit :)

  44. Very architectual the jacket I like! ..and the shoes :)

  45. Nice Blog!!


  46. great outfit dear!
    maybe wanna follow each other? let me know

  47. you have such a lovely blog!

    I would greatly appreciate it if you can subscribe to my youtube channel?


    i will also follow you on gfc :)

  48. I appreciate your thoughts Seepz! Thanks my dear :)

  49. Thanks for being there my dear Lilli and for keeping in touch. :) I appreciate your sweet words a lot :)

  50. Thanks so much dear! Keep in touch :)

  51. Yey! Thanks for keeping in touch my dear Natalie! :)

  52. Thanks dear! Yeah we can follow each other. :)

  53. Sometimes, there are those peeps right? *sigh* Good thing we can all be good :)

  54. Oh yes Lidia! I have Google+ I think I added you ... lemme check. Let's keep in touch dear :)

  55. Thanks so much my dear Mina! :)

  56. Thanks Teresa! Will check out your blog. :)

  57. Yay thanks so much my dear Kimberly lovely! :) We'll keep in touch :)

  58. Thanks so much for your encouraging post my dear! I appreciate it so much Sam! :)

  59. Thanks Aga! Will check out your blog :)

  60. Awww I really appreciate your kind words dear! So sweet and encouraging! I get the will to hang on and fight :)

  61. Ok Sabrina! Will check. Thanks :)

  62. Awww I am moved by this. Thanks dear Rita! How I wish I can really be stronger. :) Will try!

  63. Hehe of course my dear! Will keep in touch :)

  64. Thanks so much Gloria dear! :)

  65. Thanks for all the support dear Nico :)

  66. Thanks dear :) THanks for visiting :)

  67. Thanks for reading thru it my dear Sarah! :)
    Well, the way I write my outfit posts, it's always related to my views and insights, and sometimes personal state. Not just posing for the cam or showcasing the outfit. So I hit 2 birds in 1 stone hehe. Glad you noticed. :) I love to share quotes and beliefs and translate to my fashion statement :)

  68. Thanks so much dear Christine :)

  69. Yey keep in touch dear! Followed you also on Twitter :)

  70. Thanks for your kind words dear Ruva! Love it! :) Followed you on instagram too :)

  71. Thanks for visiting my again dear :)

  72. Ok my dear! Will nominate you. You have all my love and support :)

  73. So cute polka dots yay! I know you love it too :)

  74. Thanks so much Jess! Really appreciate it :)

  75. thats awesome! i think its always more interesting when its not just photos with a caption of where each clothing item is from. i like to have a little content, or in ur case, something a bit more personal. makes for a better blog post.

  76. My Scrambled StyleMarch 23, 2013 at 4:23 AM

    Great look. I love your blazer.
    Happy weekend!

  77. don't worry dear, others always gonna care about the stuff which they shouldn't. BTW, I like your blazer.


  79. Thanks for visiting me again dear Monika :)

  80. Thanks for visiting my dear :)

  81. Great! Thanks for visiting my dear Rosalinda! :)

  82. Thanks for your appreciation dear Sarah! :)

  83. Super cute! I love it with the polka dots! I came across your blog and am your newest follower. I would love if you’d visit me at : the daily savant : and (if you like) follow with GFC and Blog Lovin'!

    : signe

  84. Thanks Signe! I am now following you. Hope we can keep in touch and visit each other :)


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